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of the glass is half full, glass is half empty paradigm. It adds a third choice
to the mix. In this case, the ‘half empty’ complains. The ‘half full’
anticipates a better future. The third group does something about the
situation.
While this is an example specific to sailing a ship, I
believe it can be applied to our lives in general. You can complain, you can
wait for things to get better, or you can get up off your butt and start doing
something about the situation.
Not every situation can be salvaged. Some things will turn out
badly. But there are few things that cannot be changed at least a little, if
you are willing to work at it. Yes, you may still lose, but you might just be
able to score a few points, if you work hard and smart.
I’m not saying any one of us could do a better job, but we
are each the captain of our own ship. You can do nothing and complain about how
poorly things are going. You can do nothing and wait for the world to improve.
Or you can do what you can to adjust the sails and improve your condition.
In this manner, you are the leader. You provide the example
for your crew, however small that may be. And when your ship begins to move,
the ships around you will start to wonder why the wind favors your boat. The
smart captains will ask what you did. The best captains will do what you did.
And in their imitation, you have become a leader.
Once you can see past the false choice between “half empty”
and “half full,” you can begin to determine what actions you can take to fill
the glass, or drink what is in it to sustain yourself while you work on getting
yourself more to drink.
Neither of those two options get anyone much of an
improvement in their lives. The decision is fairly simple, you reject the
dichotomy and select option three, adjust the sails. Now the question becomes
what can you do to adjust your sails, to improve your condition or situation?
Now all that remains is to determine where you want to go,
and how you set your sails to best take advantage of the prevailing winds.
While some might say that it’s impossible to make any headway in the current
situation, it is useful to remember that some of the greatest fortunes were
made in poor economic times.
Complaining and hoping are the two sides of the coin of
inaction. No matter how many times you flip it, you are still stuck with those
two choices, and in the mean time, nothing gets done. Be a leader, even if you
are the only person on your dingy. Otherwise nothing will get done, and that’s
rarely going to be the best option.
We are all
leaders and managers in some way. These roles interchange even daily depending
on the tasks people are on. But why do most people cope with these roles very
differently? Some are excellent managers but their leadership qualities are too
far from great. At the same time, there are inspiring and motivating leaders
who can’t even manage their own schedules.
The question is what makes a person a leader? And how do managers differ from leaders and why? These and similar questions arise when you think about self-development, the skills, and traits you have to develop as a leader. Being a good manager is easy when you are a true leader, while the opposite may not be attainable.
“You see
managers and leaders every day. You may not recognize each role because the
difference is not that significant on the surface”, - says Adam Whitney,
creative director at portrait retouching service.
A CEO of a
large multinational company may seem to you as an impeccable leader. But the
details always matter. You should find out more about managers and leaders to
distinguish between them.
Anyone could be a manager. If you manage something in a local grocery store your family owns - congratulations, you’re a manager! This term applies to a variety of occupations. It can be a cleaning manager (a janitor, for instance) in your favorite diner or an experienced CEO of a bank nearby. Both positions presume administration, maintenance, and focus on processes. The difference is in the level of responsibility.
The manager is a title. It is a position. Managers organize processes to make an organization succeed. The main focus of any manager is the maintenance of a working structure but not employees. The definition of management is what people should do rather than how they should do it.
One of the best leader vs manager difference examples is the approach to people. Managers see employees as effective instruments to get a job done. Leaders focus on the environment and human interactions. Managers are goal-centered, while leaders are people-oriented.
What is the
main manager and leader difference? Managers are good decision-makers but
rarely capable of envisioning things to come. They are excellent executives who
are always ready to follow orders. Leaders are visionaries who give these
orders.
Leadership is
what most people heard about but only a few know what this is. The synonym of
leadership is responsibility. It is the readiness to accept any results of your
decisions if you are a true leader. Managers have procedures and instructions
about most situations they have to manage. In comparison with the last ones,
leaders don’t have such a privilege. So, manager and leader traits are very
different in most cases.
Undisputable
Traits a Leader Should Have
Leaders are always determined. They focus on what they must do and follow this path with no excuses. If you want to become a true leader, you should develop this trait. There is no other way.
Leaders are always responsible for what they do and say. You’re either responsible or not if leadership traits are what you are after. Being harsh to others, though, is now what great leaders do. You need to learn empathy as well.
Leaders have positive thinking. They are always open-minded even if the world around them is against it. Being positive when you’re torn apart by hardships of life is not easy and you should keep this in mind. But true leaders do it somehow, so should you if you want to be like them.
If you want to
know more about a leader's traits, read the following post.
Leadership
Skills of a True Leader
Leaders set goals right. If they don’t, they accept that they were wrong and reset the goals. This cycle is endless so for some people it could be a difficult one. Yet, you must be ready that what you do is not what you should do.
Leaders are aware of their strengths and weaknesses. The ability to critically assess one's own capacity is what distinguishes leaders from regular people. A true leader is not falsely modest but overestimating one's abilities is not an option. You are what you do rather than say.
Leaders are great listeners. You can’t be a leader if you don’t know your followers. Building relationships with people is the most powerful skill of any genuine leader. You should learn to think about people first, their needs, and issues if your goal is true leadership.
Read more about
leadership skills a true leader should have.
Get
to Know the Key Difference Between a Leader and a Manager
Managers are
doers, while leaders are thinkers. Keep it in mind on the road to true
leadership. Yet, it should not confuse you because leaders usually see what
they must do to achieve the goals. Managers ask leaders about it. Becoming a
leader is not an easy task, but if you are on it, nothing should ever stop you.
Building a trustworthy environment is one of the most powerful skills of a true
leader.
A selection of highlighted blog posts from Lean bloggers from the month of November 2021. You can also view the previous monthly Lean Roundups here.
Five Lean Questions for Rethinking Work - Jon Miller shares five questions for rethinking work from a lean management perspective in post pandemic world.
The Power of Commitment - Bruce Hamilton shares a story with tribute to Mr. Hajime Oba from his early experience with TSSC in 1996.
Henry & Edsel Ford – the Pride & the Sorrow - Pascal Dennis talks about how Detroit answered President Roosevelt’s call for weaponry in WWII.
Leadership Tip 15: Reward Meeting Behavior You Want to See - Johanna Rothman explains how leaders show their power with meeting example.
What’s Lean All About? - Jon Miller shares his thoughts on the meaning and purpose of lean from experience.
Going to Gemba Isn’t Sufficient - Ron Pereira talks about how you can use video to study and improve your processes.
This WSJ Article About Lean Isn’t Terrible (via GE and Larry Culp) - Mark Graban discusses a recent WSJ article about General Electric and CEO Larry Culp (who knows Lean very well from his time as CEO of Danaher).
Ask Art: I Want to Convert My Company to Lean. What Are the First Steps? – Art Byrne explains the commitment you must make— and the expectations you must set—when you start your continuous-improvement journey.
How a Focus on People Accelerated a Lean Transformation - Sharon Visser shares the story of dramatically improved business and operational performance when a car dealership's leaders embraced the lean principle of respect for people.
How to Respond to the ‘Great Resignation’ – Josh Howell says a trip to the gemba reveals an overlooked management strategy that could be the most effective way to keep your employees from quitting their jobs.
Leading in Uncertainty - Steve Musica shares Dr. Eric Dickson MD lessons
in leading a hospital system through the worst of the global pandemic.
More than any
other holiday, Thanksgiving is a day dedicated to reflecting and gratitude for
everything we have in life. Around Thanksgiving, many of us pause to reflect on
the things, people, and circumstances that make us grateful. Some families even
have traditions of sharing gratitude around the Thanksgiving table.
For many
people, “thanks-giving” is a tradition that happens around the dinner table
once a year. But research suggests that leaders should encourage gratitude in
the workplace year-round.
Boost worker
engagement and productivity – as well as satisfaction and health – by
increasing gratitude in your workplace. Here are 4 ways to help encourage
gratitude in the workplace and foster more thanks-giving year-round at work:
1. Be grateful
for people, not performance.
Sometimes,
gratitude initiatives can feel like old recognition programs warmed over. To
avoid this feeling, focus on social worth and think about how people have made
a difference. Give thanks for people’s willingness, enthusiasm, commitment, or
efforts — not their impact on the bottom line.
2. Customize
your thanks-giving.
Practicing
gratitude requires thinking about how specific people like to be thanked and
tailoring your gratitude accordingly. Thanking a very shy person at the global
quarterly meeting might come across more like punishment than recognition.
3. Be specific
in your gratitude.
Saying “thanks
for being awesome” doesn’t have the same impact as “thank you for always
getting to meetings 5 minutes early to set up the projector; I know that our
meetings wouldn’t go as well if we didn’t have you.”
4. Don’t fake
it.
Authentic
leadership and showing vulnerability are key parts of gratitude. If you can’t
think of anything you’re truly grateful for, don’t try to fake it. Most people
can tell when an expression of thanks isn’t heartfelt, and fake gratitude is
probably worse than none at all.
Make
Thanksgiving count. This year, let’s be truly grateful and carry that gratitude
throughout the holiday season.
Whenever the
holiday season comes around, annual traditions and Thanksgiving activities seem
to explode. There are family events centered around each special occasion, and
Thanksgiving is no exception. However, even though this celebration is so
common for American households and we grow up anticipating the turkey, amazing
sides (not to mention desserts!), the food coma, and football naps, a lot of us
might scratch our heads at the origin story of this beloved holiday.
Thanksgiving is
commonly known as a way to commemorate the colonial Pilgrims’ harvest meal that
they shared with Wampanoag Indians (who “were key to the survival of the
colonists during the first year they arrived in 1620”) in 1621. As years went
on, designating feasts dedicated to giving thanks on an annual or occasional
basis became common practice in other New England settlements as well.
Thanksgiving is
all about reflecting on blessings and acknowledging gratitude. After all, in
President George Washington’s 1789 Thanksgiving Proclamation, he stated about
its purpose: “Whereas it is the duty of all Nations to acknowledge the
providence of Almighty God, to obey his will, to be grateful for his benefits,
and humbly to implore his protection and favor—and whereas both Houses of
Congress have by their joint Committee requested me ‘to recommend to the People
of the United States a day of public thanksgiving and prayer to be observed by
acknowledging with grateful hearts the many signal favors of Almighty God
especially by affording them an opportunity peaceably to establish a form of
government for their safety and happiness.’”
Thanksgiving
has evolved over the years as an important holiday. It is not just about
feasting and merrymaking. The tradition of Thanksgiving dinner teaches us to
appreciate the finer things in life. It is about showing one's gratitude for
the blessings that we are showered with. In all the hustle and bustle of
getting ready for Thanksgiving, take a moment to focus on what being thankful
is all about.
Being thankful
for what we already have is probably the most powerful tool of positive
thinking. The ability to notice what we already have and to consider ourselves
blessed with it truly unlocks the door to abundance and to feeling good.
As we gather to
celebrate Thanksgiving in the US, may we vow to live not just this day but
every day with a grateful heart and to use our blessings to bless others.